SPEAK ON IT!!! PRETTY IS NOT JUST PRETTY ANYMORE! PRETTY IS PLASTIC AND FAKER THAN FAKE!! WHAT HAS GONE WRONG?

I have no damn idea of where I would fit in this world as far as looks are concerned. Society has changed what is fine, beautiful, gorgeous, pretty and sexy. Not that I am trying to fit into society! However, what happened to real glamour? That old Hollywood like fairytale glam? When one saw a woman like Lena Horne, Dorothy Dandridge, Rita Hayworth, Diana Ross, Marilyn Monroe on the screen the women and men seemed to swoon in awe. Now all we see is this plastic BS that is placating the scene in and around celebrities. Who is real and who is fake! Never ever did I think I would see the day where plastic surgery would be the in thing to do! I know, I know this is nothing new. However, plastic surgery is now for the basic and not the rich. It seems plastic surgeons have lowered their prices! Some that is, not that it's cheap but.....

Now the question is, and I will ask myself. If you could get plastic surgery what would you get? Well I wouldn't get breast implants. But I would get them lifted. I wouldn't get “booty” or to be PC derriere injections or implants. Regardless of myths not all women that are of African American decent or mixed with African American, or of Latin ethnic culture have a shapely or rotund derriere! I was one that was unfortunate. (if one wants to look at that way according to society) I am okay and fine with it! Neither do I have a set of voluptuous hips to go along with it. And I am fine with that as well! Trust me! However, bleaching my skin, breast implants, anus injections, cheek and chin implants. No. Now if one suffers with issues that they need cosmetic surgery. I say go for it! Some people need it. But why are some so eager to make their breast bigger, hips wider, cheeks bigger and wider hips, bleach their skin and want more “Booty”?

It use to be only in the culture of African American that men adored women with a rotund behind, wait...wait I am going into another story. Let me stay on the path. Women of all ethnic cultures and backgrounds are now flocking to get breast implants and add more to their already hefty behind! You turn on the TV, especially reality TV shows and once a woman who had a B cup is now well endowed! Her derriere is explosive! When you already had enough, or more than enough to begin with! Now all we literally see is T&A! Is this the new norm? Is this the new fad? And though I hear many men say that “I don't want a woman who is plastic” These same men are flocking to these women! Gawking! Over zealous to be with these now fake and plastic women! Filled with their own fat from other areas of their body they had sucked out and sucked in other places. Silicone is the new sexy? Wait! Is that your real nose? Chin? Breast? Do you get botox? If I lit a match right now would you melt?

Just like drugs plastic surgery is very addictive. Some people stay up under the knife and now are unrecognizable! Where is the self-esteem? Is it in every surgery that you get? Does it truly make you feel better about you on the inside? Don't get me wrong, we can all do fine tuning here and there. It's called working out! Yes losing weight makes you feel better about yourself. It does! But why is getting plastic parts raise your self esteem ? So are you saying that you had some but really didn't. Oh but you were enhancing the self esteem you had???? Huh??? Are you doing this simply to be more attractive to others so that they will flock to you?

Again I don't see anything wrong with a little enhancement to look and feel better. So maybe I am a bit oxymoron! But this has gotten totally out of control!!!! I mean there are young girls who are looking up to these women and feeling it is okay to look this way and not be grateful for what they have. That you must look a certain type of way to be excepted. Or to attract the opposite sex or same sex, or whatever your preference is! Is this again another new norm? Taking “booty” shot selfies, exposing breast that are clearly not yours! Showing wide hips that you never had before in life! Now you are 44' across the hips when you started off it was a measly 33' or 36' what was wrong with that? I shrug my shoulders. So are you pretty? Am I pretty according to the new “society” rule. Natural beauty, breast, hips, chin, cheeks are no longer pretty! The ones you were born with.

I am not saying that all men are attracted to women who are plastic dolls. I mean obvious plastic dolls. Funny, some of these women are looking like porn stars! Like I need more and more and more! I guess it's wrong to go and buy a corset, a push up bra, and maybe a booty pad! LOL

If it boost your self esteem, if it makes you feeeeel good about YOUR life! Life has gotten so much better for you with the implants, who am I to SPEAK ON IT? My question is, why does it need to be over exposed in the media and on film? Is this the new pretty? Again if it is, I guess I am ugly...

Toy High