SPEAK ON IT!!! THE NEW NORM OF OXYMORON...OXY-NORM!!!!

To be or not to be...that is the question...And it truly is! Either you are hot, or either you are cold! It is just that simple. I look back at all the rhetoric in the world. It is total insanity! Not including what is going on a persons personal life. That indeed adds tension to the already tense and pensive world! Some are living from pay check to pay check. Acting as if everything is still grand and wonderful on the outside. So sad, but it is all so true.

The world and those of course who live in it have had a major contribution to life. Those around them, those in the world that have left some madness and mayhem. These are what I call mixed signals! We are quick to tear each other down, abuse one another, take advantage of one another. To top all that off! Some of us are truly narcissist! If it isn't about ME, then who else really is there?

Politics, religions, wars, racism, family, crime, love, all has a self, for me, for us connotation. Though some of the things I mention may not seem, nor come across as selfish behavior. They are, it's single mindedness that has feelings that are the same. It is about me, really it is. But I will make it a little about you! Oxymoron isn't it? I see so many negative things that soon to plague the world. Bitterness is in the air now! Though there are some positive people who see that only as a “Bump in the word” They pray, meditate, keep smiling, great energy in the universe, think positive type of people. Is there enough of those though? Clearly its not!

We are all scramblers, runners, anxious people looking for the next best hustle, money, love and the next best thing to hit the market. Running around in a maze while the world crumbles into a state of emergency! We no longer seem to have shock value to anything. We are now, or should I say some of us. Therefore I won't get any letters or comments categorizing people. We are accustomed to seeing or hearing sad heart breaking stories on the news. Our hearts, or some of our hearts are no longer moved by sadness to some of the things that happen in the world. Desensitized is what they call it. I can help you, but I can't at the same damn time. I care but I don't care. I love you but I hate you! Where is the balance in all of this?

Does everything in the world have to be so chaotic? Apparently so. We are given this through social media of all platforms. We have an overwhelming stage for it. It's called the internet! We even have it on our phones! What a wonderful invention huh?

We are givers, and yet we are stingy! All again at the same time. So how is expectant for things to get better in the world that includes: Relationships, jobs, family, politics, wars, love. So on and so on. It is a confused and betwixt situation. Also when you break as much down going on in the world you would literally have a nervous break down! Try for a moment to think of the various things. Missing and exploited children, health crisis, abused children, sexually abused children, murderers, starvation, employment...whew! I had more but I will stop there. Imagine you had to carry all those burdens I mentioned on your shoulders and more!

We are, live and dwell in an oxymoron society. Some of us are worse off mentally, emotionally, physically and financially than others. For those who suffer all, or some of what I fore mentioned. We carry some heaviness that is now a “norm” for that walk in life. Some of us are programmed to the system that we fight daily. We shout, we write, we talk, we protest, we make laws. Yet, yet we are still programmed to abide and live, even think the way we do. Oxy-norm!

All of the people that walk this earth are a huge overwhelming mass of a beautiful mess! Perfectly flawed in our own perfections. That indeed is an oxymoron! How does one get acclimated to something that is not healthy or right? And yet loath and detest it at the same time? Normally if you don't like what you are wearing you change it! You don't like a certain food, drink, person. You don't eat, drink or come around that person. You change it! Why is it hard to change the things we say, do, feel, act ugly upon? If you have an answer, please let me know? Because at the end of the day, our norm is the new oxy-norm.

Toy High