SPEAK ON IT!!! WHY DO WE CARE SO MUCH OF WHAT OTHERS DO? ARE WE TRULY FREE TO BE JUST US?

Are we, you and me truly free to be what we want to be? Why do we care what others think? Why do we continue to let others bother us by their rhetoric and name slaying? Simple...we are human and we do care what people think at the end of the day. No matter what one might say, we do want people and others to not only understand our life and what we do how we do what we do when we do it. We want people to inner stand us as well. There are very few people in the world that truly are like ducks and let negative talk roll off of our backs like the water off of a duck. But if it does roll off, why do some of these same people who say they don't care explain why they do what they do? Because they care! Again it is simple!

I have met a handful of people who truly don't care of what others think. However it took them a looooong while them to get there. They got there through years of abuse and being emotionally tired of certain occurrences that have happened over and over and over in their lives. So they built up a stone wall. This has taken time to do, hurt feelings and tired of explaining. So you build a wall of restraint. This doesn't mean that other things in ones life doesn't effect them. That they don't care. But when listening to constant criticism over and over they will come out and speak on it!

I am not the head judge in charge of the world, if I were so many things in this world would not occur. But if I could be the judge, the supreme ruler would I want to change others opinions and lives and make them do what they don't want to do. Though I have my personal opinions of what I see played out in my families lives and those whom I know. Those who I see in the media, some too much! Oh how I tire of seeing the same faces and articles of the same celebrities marking their every move.

Did Bruce Jenner have to come out the way he did? Did Ellen DeGeneres Have to come out the way she did? The mass of other people that come out of the “closet” do we really care? Apparently so because it makes headlines. However, is it okay to hate others for their choices? A life that they lead? No! No one should be bullied nor hated for their choices. Some even commit suicide or killed because they are who they are! So sad! Actually there is no equality! If we have to continue to fight for things in this world and all of the injustices then we do not live in a fair world! Why do women have to fight to be good at what they do? Why are women and other ethnic groups that are not of the Caucasian persuasion are considered to be the minority? So so we all live in a world that respects gender, race, housing, jobs? I don't think so!

Listen at the end of the day none of these people who are who they are and do what they do can save us from our saves. They do not pay our bills. Unless, unless we work for them. Yes I do disapprove of a lot of things people say and do! If not then I would not be writing this! Of course I judge what goes on in the world and more. But one persons opinion on many matters does not seem to make a big difference unless there are millions that agree and step up to the plate to make a difference.

People can literally kill themselves in so many ways. That is through the negative things they have gone through and the negative things they feel. Some things I feel should be left to ones self even if we have freedom of speech. It seems to me that some of us enjoy destroyning others with gossip and hateful things! Wars, racism, murder, jealousy and hate!

What is freedom really? Are we not suppose to be free to live, eat, work, play, travel, school and say what we want? Also whatever religious views we have serve who and what we want to serve? Though we may not agree, we are suppose to be free to do that! I feel, and have always felt that we live in the most oxymoron society. Everything is a catch 22! You can and you can't at the same time! I inner and understand the flow of ying and yang. But do we really want peace in our world? If there were peace, and I do mean true peace we would be able to contain it and sustain it? Would we be able to accept that we can all live together and not judge each other so harshly?

Some of us can be so mean! Can I be mean? Why sure! Have I been mean? Of course I have! However some things and some times I can keep my mouth closed and my opinions to myself. I indeed would not want someone to take their lives because of how they were mistreated by me in words or in deeds. They say stick and stones may hurt my burns but words will never hurt me! So untrue! Words linger and stain or brain with everlasting memories and have us feeling certain type of way as we grow up. Sure we can prove someone wrong! Sure some of the negative things motivate us to be and do better. But all are not the same. Some are more sensitive than others!

I can definitely say that I am a beautiful mess! I have to accept that about myself and my life and always continue to strive and do better and work out my flaws by just acknowledging them. This makes me a better person because I don't blame, I stand up to the plate. The more I accept the good the bad and the ugly. Those negative things play a very small role in my life because I am now more cognizant of who I am.

Life can be so simple! But why hate, why care so much of things that don't concern you?